I like Bruce Willis movies a lot more than the Mel Gibson movies. Mel was hot when he was young, but age has not been kind to him and his social behaviors are atrocious. I have no interest in supporting that arrogant jerk with my entertainment monies.

Had to send a message to the perp. Not to keep things stirred up but to hopefully chill things for the next gathering – whenever that will be. At the risk of her giving me a bunch of grief back. Oh well, let’s see if free advice is worth anything.

“The older I get – and its pretty old now, g/f – the more I appreciate peace and harmony. Even though people have strong emotions, it is usually not worth having a discussion escalate in a family gathering. The family (any family) has a natural pecking order and people who disregard that are at a disadvantage.

So let me say that, when I married Steve Sr and had to find my way in his large dysfunctional family it was always challenging for me, especially during holidays. When all else fails, I would tell myself, “You can’t reason with crazy and you can’t argue with stupid.” Not that I’m calling anyone crazy or stupid – just sayin’ that sometimes nothing you say will have a good outcome no matter how right you think you are or how wrong you think someone else might be.

There’s another saying I love, too. “Don’t let the turkeys get you down.”

My stepdaughter has no ornaments for her tree but she gets a lot of food stamps. I told her to make some handmade ornaments. Like gingerbread men and little playdough figures that you can make from flour, salt and water. These are adorable and not that hard to make. If you use food items, they aren’t costing you anything but time.

AIDS has effected all of us for over 30 years. We take the opportunity on December 1 every year to continue to raise awareness of AIDS and the continued prevalence of HIV worldwide. In the past 30 years, over 30 million have died from AIDS. I hope we can find a cure in my lifetime and stop the spread of the infection so that the next generation does not have to bear this burden of burying our loved ones who suffer and die from AIDS.

My family dinner will be pulling people for 4 different states, but not all of us will be there. My sister is hosting the dinner in Virginia. We can’t make that long a trip right now, but my thoughts are with them. the worst thing about not being there is that the people not there get talked about and they aren’t able to defend themselves. Rumors and arguments from family gatherings have a way of lasting for months afterwards. That’s how families do.

I like to get out of my comfort zone. Sometimes it just means ordering a different food when you go to the local diner. It might mean taking a different route home or just going for a drive one afternoon. Or watching a couple of shows that you never heard of on a cable channel that you usually skip over.

That pattern continued with my two younger brothers. My brother was born 10 years after me and his birthday was on the 13th. Then the youngest and last was born on . . . not the 11th. That’s what we were all thinking. But he was born on the 21st. So we’ve got all the odd numbers covered from the 13th through the 21st.

When my mom went to Las Vegas they gave her a Keno card at one of the restaurants and she picked all the numbers of our birthdays – and she won $800! How about that!

I have been thinking about that a lot lately. I don’t know what I would say in just a few sentences. If I could spend a couple hours with someone, I would probably cover a lot of things about self esteem, good manners and honesty.

Most of my friends are all dealing with menopause and they have already gone through it. Since I had a hysterectomy over 30 years ago, I never had to go through an actual natural menopause. But I can relate to the humor in this from what everyone else has told me.

If you believe in luck, I hope you enjoy good luck. I found a four leaf clover this morning. Maybe I will have some good luck, too.

The three ships of Columbus.

Three blind mice.

The three sisters from Vienna.

My sisters blog and we all have a blast reading up on each other’s days and keeping up with the family.

Just wanted to shout out to my sisters – you rock!

Dottie does not like to get her feet wet. She also does not like to go outside when it is cold. So you can imagine how she feels about being outside in snow!

Isn’t she beautiful? She has such nice markings and the long hair that always surprises people when I tell them she is a Jack Russell. Dottie is the most perfect dog I have ever had. I just love this dog!

Everyone around me is having babies. Nothing makes you feel so old as seeing everyone else pushing baby strollers and realizing that pushing strollers was something you did over 30 years ago. I have to go to another baby shower next weekend. I might as well stock up on baby gifts and keep them at the ready.